I hope to retain my Individual Kelsey integrity. By that, I mean never wanted to be that girl who did/liked/embraced something because her boyfriend. I think there should be a healthy balance.
I am a football fan whose passion for it was cultivated even more by my ex-boyfriend. If I wanted his time and attention on fall weekends (which was all the time we had), I either could throw a temper tantrum or I could embrace it. I embraced it. It helped that we were Bears fans.
Thats one instance where it helped that I embrace a boyfriend-thing.
One thing I would not develop a love for was three weekends-in-a-row Dark Knight viewings.
It was not that good. Yeah. I said it.
There comes a time where you have to throw your hands up in mock disdain, look them square in the eye and say "I do not care. I'm going shopping!" or whatever activity he refuses to do with you because hes a douche bag.
I see more and more girls losing their identity and morphing into this blob they think their boyfriends would like. Its a big fake fake front and if you can't be yourself at the beginning, he's going to be in for a big surprise when he learns you lied about not really liking him singing horrific caterwaulings love lullabies to you everynight. I'm going to guess his feelings will even be hurt a little bit.
Might as well hurt them at the beginning when its still new and he knows to shut up after that first time of singing.
